Saturday, 17 July 2021

Time to stay close and rest a while

“…Come away to a deserted place all by yourselves and rest a while” (Mark 6:31)


Jeremiah 23:1-6

Psalm 23

Ephesians 2:11-22

Mark 6:30-34, 53-56

The Scripture readings, above, are from  the appointed 'paired' readings for the principal service of the day from the Church of Ireland while hyper-links to the readings are taken from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright © http://nrsvbibles.org

(Year B: Seventh Sunday after Trinity, 18th July 2021)

Rest is a natural part of lives.  If we are lucky to attain the age of say 60, we are likely to have spent somewhere between 15 and 20 years lying in various beds (which is a good reason, if you can afford it, to buy a good and back-friendly mattress!). 

Once upon a time, people in these parts of the world were very mindful of Sunday as a very special day of rest where only ‘essential’ work was allowed like milking cows or selling Sunday newspapers and ice cream!  In some places on this dear Ireland, the principle of a ‘day’s rest’ was taken so far as to have children’s playgrounds closed (not that such arrangements ever prevented children from playing even on the Sabbath!).

Today (regrettably), Sunday is like any other day – traffic volumes are high but more evenly distributed across the day, stores are open around the clock and people who are not working in paid employment use the time to catch up – wash, organise the house and meet up with family and friends.  Sunday morning sports among other things have replaced, for many, the altogether special thing of getting ‘dressed up’ and going together as family to mass or Sunday service. Nostalgia might beckon but the reality is that we live in a very different world.

Yet, people are possibly more interested than ever in doing courses on meditation, mindfulness, yoga and similar exercises. Even the term ‘retreat’ is in popular vogue again and not as some school-imposed day in a convent or other religious house but in a ‘barn’ with lots of scented candles, cushions, green lentils and people standing on their heads. Namaste be with you!

Yet, we can find treasures in our own Christian faith if we look at where we stand or have come from. Let’s pick up the story of Jesus in the sixth chapter of Mark. The tranches of Mark 6 chosen by the liturgists, this Sunday, skips over verses 35 to 52 and takes up the story after Jesus and his disciples had crossed over to Gennesaret where crowds were running about gathering up sick people. Between heading off to ‘a deserted place by themselves’ (verse 31) and the healing of the sick recounted in verses 53 to 56 in the selected readings of the day, Jesus fed five thousand people after which he went away again for a night to pray on his own in the hills where a storm suddenly blew up and Jesus had to walk across the water to rescue the terrified apostles. It does not appear that the disciples or Jesus got a huge amount of rest during all of these happenings as recounted by Mark!

What pressed upon Jesus the most? It was four things that amount to the same thing:

Compassion for the crowds who looked for encouragement, leadership and understanding (‘they were like sheep without a shepherd; and he began to teach them many things.’ – verse 34).

Compassion for the people’s hunger for food – ordinary and not ordinary – whereby Jesus feeds the crowd from the little that the apostles could muster.

Compassion for the apostles’ hardness of heart and lack of trust (verse 50).

Compassion for those who were brought to him – the sick and those in need of healing.

Compassion incited Jesus to show practical concern for his friends by proposing a time of rest and withdrawal together as a group. Yet, the crowds demanded further healing and instruction and Jesus continued to show the same compassion by changing his plans and attending to the needs of a people who were ‘like sheep without a shepherd’ (verse 34). This change of plan tells us that (a) rest is essential and to be embraced as a sacred human obligation for ourselves and others, and (b) a ministry and service governed by compassion means that the timing and extent of such rest should be flexible. ‘Out of hours’ and not available doesn’t work when someone is seriously sick, troubled or in danger. When in doubt ‘err on the side of compassion’.

And so it that time of year, again, when some lucky people in the Northern hemisphere of the globe can afford a break from the everyday routine and to ‘take some air’ and enjoy the fruits of the earth.  In our daily and pressurised lives we need to seek places and times of quiet where we can simply be.  Whether this be accompanied by walking, exercising, reading, listening, looking or simply enjoying the company of loved ones there must be time and space for rest.  After all, on the seventh day God rested from all his work (Genesis 2:2). The writers of Genesis wished to press home the good example the creator of the universe showed to us his creatures! We owe our seven day week to these ancient scribes among others. And to press home the point further there is the biblical injunction of a seventh year of rest when the fields are not to be sown or vines pruned (Leviticus 25:4). All of this made good ecological sense and probably still does (I am no ecologist!).

St Augustine of Hippo hit the nail in the right place when he said ‘God, you have made us for yourself, and our hearts are restless till they find their rest in you.’ [Confessions, Book 1, chapter 1(2)]. We seek rest in the wrong places and in the wrong ways only to find our hearts still more restless. All ‘things’ can be arranged to serve good ends if we know how but when we make an end of these ‘things’ we end up in a loop of frustrating anxiety.

Rest is important for those moved by compassion to lead; to teach; to help heal; and to proclaim.  Might I add that it is important for everyone.  At this time, I am thinking especially or our frontline doctors, nurses and carers who are exhausted after four waves and four lockdowns. What will the coming months hold for them and for all of us? We need to rest a bit now if we can and do so in a way that is safe and compassionate to our very own selves and to each other.

Might we just grab a few moments of particular rest today? How about breathing in the spirit (breath) of God’s holy presence and breathing out compassion in a prayer for the one next to me at this present moment in life? Might we create a number of such moments throughout the day – consciously remembering to stop and breathe in and breathe out again?  And, if we are fortunate enough to enjoy health, time and financial resources to use some of our holiday time away to have more moments of such prayerful rest?

And as it says in the concluding prayer for one of the night offices:

……grant us the rest we need that we may be ever more willing to serve you….


Saturday, 10 July 2021

A tough calling

“…And Herodias had a grudge against him, and wanted to kill him” (Mark 6:19)
  

Amos 7:7-15

Psalm 85:8-13

Ephesians 1:3-14

Mark 6:14-29

The Scripture readings, above, are from  the appointed 'paired' readings for the principal service of the day from the Church of Ireland while hyper-links to the readings are taken from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright © http://nrsvbibles.org

(Year B: Sixth Sunday after Trinity, 11th July 2021)

The readings for this Sunday, including the account of how and why John the Baptist was put to death do not make for easy reading.

Though John the Baptist is mentioned frequently throughout the gospels, but especially in the earlier life and ministry of Jesus, he is something of an unknown figure paving the way for our Messiah and then fading. ‘He must increase, but I must decrease.’ John says (John 3:20). Again, the message from John is clear:

Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near (Matthew 3:2)

What does the story of John’s birth tell us? Here is the one who leapt for joy when, as an unborn child, he heard the greeting of Mary who was carrying the Saviour of this world.  John’s mission was summed up in what we sometimes call the Benedictus – those verses in the first chapter of the gospel of Saint Luke when John’s father, Zechariah, utters a prophecy about his son, John.

John had a special role to play in pointing the people of Israel to its saviour. By all accounts, John was a rough and ready sort. We can imagine him by the river Jordan in the full swing of his ministry: unshaven, shabbily dressed, emaciated and sunburnt and possibly a bit smelly as well notwithstanding the frequent dips in the River Jordan as he baptised those who came to him including, one day, his cousin Jesus.

In today’s Gospel reading, we get a sense of the drama about John when his life came to an abrupt end. Like Jesus who came after him, he overstepped his mark. He spoke out clearly and boldly without fear of the consequences. In the case of Herod (Antipas), he called out bad behaviour and unacceptable values.  For his labours, he was rewarded with beheading – a not unknown practice for many disciples of Jesus in certain parts of the world in very recent times.

What is the message from this Gospel passage?  We need to draw on John’s passion for the truth and justice and, at the same time, his love for people which saw him lay down his life for all three. His sacrifice was a key trigger point in the emerging ministry of Jesus and the call of his first disciples. Things would never be the same again. A pattern had been set and the sacrifice of Jesus on Calvary would open up a way for us that would never end.

John did what others might be inclined not to do: speak the Word of God in plain terms and without fear of the consequences.  Not just that: he lived the Word of God in his life.

What might we take from the example of John? I suggest three points:

  1. The one who speaks out to others and up to those in authority may do so from a position of moral authority having lived and experienced what they profess (‘No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends’ in John 15:13).
  2. Second, each of us in the Body of Christ has our own gift, calling and responsibility.
  3. Finally, whatever we say or do must be for the good of others.

Lord God, teach us to love and live by your word. Like John the Baptist, help us to be fearless, faithful and gentle witnesses to your truth in the 21st century. Amen.



Saturday, 3 July 2021

Meeting rejection in one’s own village

‘…Jesus said to them, ‘Prophets are not without honour, except in their home town, and among their own kin, and in their own house.’ (Mark 6:4)

                                                   The hill outside Nazaerth where Jesus nearly met death...

Ezekiel 2:15

Psalm 123

2 Corinthians 12:2-10

Mark 6:1-13

Scripture readings are based on the appointed 'paired' readings for the principal service of the day from the Church of Ireland. Links to the readings are taken from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright © 1989, 1995 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. http://nrsvbibles.org

(Year B: Fifth Sunday after Trinity, 4th July 2021)

What is it about many communities that welcome the outsider ‘prophet’ but not ‘one of their own’? It is a good question.  Perhaps, in receiving the outsider we do not need to take responsibility when she or he has moved on. The insider is too much of a sign of contradiction and reproach. At the same time, we may know the insider much better than others do and, as often happens, ‘familiarity breeds contempt’: we know the negative traits and past histories of the insider and we dwell on these more than the positive. The Gospel of Mark reports the prophetic sentence of Jesus (verse 4)

Prophets are not without honour, except in their hometown, and among their own kin, and in their own house.

All four ‘canonical’ gospels – Matthew, Mark, Luke and John – report the phrase used in Mark 6:4.

In Luke’s account we are told that Jesus was run out of Nazareth after he taught there (Luke 4:28-30). He could have been murdered, prematurely, having been led to the brow of the hill overlooking Nazareth where he was to be thrown. Whatever the precise detail, we know that Jesus was not welcome in his hometown or village and this lack of welcome may have involved his closest relatives and neighbours. Could we imagine the ‘headlines’ in the Galilee Times: local Nazareth man beaten up and murdered after riot outside Synagogue…..

There was something different in the way Jesus worked. If only he adapted to the ways of those in authority and if only he worked in a pragmatic way avoiding saying or doing things that, inevitably, would infuriate and antagonise the religious authorities or the local community of his day. If only he avoided controversy and saying things that upset or embarrassed ‘his own’, and if only he settled down into a quiet life in Nazareth practicing his trade or occupation and using some spare time to impart words of wisdom in the synagogue. 

If only...

Not only did the neighbours in this hometown take ‘offence’ (some translations use the term ‘stumbled’) but his very own ‘family’. Yes, his only family. We are left guessing what exactly this means. There is more than a hint, here, that Jesus’ own family were not happy with his behaviour (see Mark 3:21).

It is likely that the experience of rejection and exclusion even up to permanent expulsion was the lived experience of many followers of Jesus when the Gospels were transferred from oral tradition to written records. Many disciples, both then and now, will experience the tension and conflict between inhospitable communities or relationships from which they have emerged and the duties of care and covenantal obligation. 

Three take-aways:

  1. Listen to one another – the one who asks the awkward question or challenges our ways of thinking may be telling us something we need to hear or take on board.
  2. Welcome the insider as well as the outsider and we ought not to miss hidden wisdom in our own ranks and families.
  3. Have courage and do not be afraid to live by gospel values even if it costs much.



Friday, 25 June 2021

The healing touch

Do not fear, only believe” (Mark 5:36)

Wisdom 1:13-15, 2:23-24

Psalm 30

2 Corinthians 8:7-15

Mark 5:21-43

 New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright © 1989, 1995 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. http://nrsvbibles.org

(Year B: Fourth Sunday after Trinity, 27th June 2021)

There is a theme running through the two stories in today’s extract from the gospel of Mark: physical proximity and touch are signs and instruments of healing. It is important to remind ourselves of this every so often. Over the centuries Christians have sometimes sought to ‘over-spiritualise’ religion and regard physical touch of the body as suspicious and possibly dangerous. This has been carried to extremes on occasions. Of course, at the same time, a great scandal and evil emerged in the life of the churches when it came to light that children and vulnerable adults were sexually or physically abused.  Worse still these things were often covered up or minimised. Thus, the very purpose of Jesus’ mission to heal, restore and bring home each and everyone was thwarted and seriously undermined.

Faced with the evil of suffering, poverty and oppression we are called to exercise the healing ministry of Jesus where we are planted and with whom we are placed. Caring for the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of others is required in the right way according to what is appropriate for us.  Our first duty is to those whom we are bound by vows of marriage, family or kinship.  In today’s Gospel extract, the leader of the Synagogue, Jairus, certainly did not spare himself in doing everything possible to save his daughter’s life. No doubt he and his family tried physicians and others to save the girl. Now, begging on his feet in heart-felt prayer was all that he could do. He pleaded – persistently – with Jesus to come and lay his hands on his daughter.

Clearly, a ministry of healing by laying of hands was well established and known in the early Christian community centred around Mark. There was a clear line back to the teachings and actions of Jesus as the second generation of believers struggled to hold on in faith to the Risen Christ now present in their shared life and primitive liturgies. Just as Jesus was engaged with Jairus someone else unintentionally interrupted the conversation. That someone was an unnamed woman with a haemorrhage. The healing imparted by Jesus did not involve direct touch but the power coming from Jesus was enough to touch her soul and her body. He faith opened the way.

One of the biggest impacts of covid has been enforced social isolation and for many a prolonged absence of physical contact. It will take a long time before many of us will feel one hundred percent comfortable about meeting up with others indoors let alone giving hugs or even shaking hands with anyone other than those in our small inner circle. We humans are by nature sociable and tactile. Yet, cultural norms make us reluctant and reserved about being too close to others. This seems to be especially case in Northern Europe.  As we move gradually towards new norms of working, travelling and socialising we will need to figure out how best to re-engage with each other in the sacred liturgies where the Risen Lord touches our souls and bodies in the Holy Sacrament of the Eucharist.

Three ‘take-aways’:

  1. Persistence in prayer and in faith bears fruit in God’s time and in God’s own way. Believe!
  2. Jesus was no ordinary guy: he brought the dead back to life and cured incurable diseases. How far does our faith in Jesus the Son of Man and our Lord and God go in us today? What limits do we place on our faith?
  3. Those deemed to be ritually impure and outside the tent may be more inside that tent than us.  In Jesus’ own culture, he overturned rules and taboos. To what extent are we prisoners of human-made rules and taboos in our own time?

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Notes on the Gospel of the day (Mark 5:21-43)

Introduction

Two healing stories are woven together.   Each story concerns an unnamed female. Each in their own way were seen as outside the privileged place of male adults in the society of the time.  A young girl, aged 12, is on the point of death while another woman has had chronic bleeding for 12 years. Neither person was ritually pure according to the religious norms of Jesus’ society. The first story of the daughter of Jairus is interrupted by another story about an adult woman. It is ‘sandwiched’ in between the beginning and the end of the story about Jairus’ daughter.

v. 21-24:  Begging for healing

When Jesus had crossed again in the boat to the other side, a great crowd gathered round him; and he was by the lake. Then one of the leaders of the synagogue named Jairus came and, when he saw him, fell at his feet and begged him repeatedly, ‘My little daughter is at the point of death. Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well, and live.’ So he went with him. And a large crowd followed him and pressed in on him. 

Jesus is on the move. He had, ‘again’, crossed the sea by boat. The crowds were never far.  The scene is set by the sea as ‘one of the leaders of the synagogue’ (Jairus) approached him and literally fell at his feet begging Jesus for his little daughter. Who would not do likewise for our own daughter or son – if we had as much faith as Jairus had almost 2,000 years ago?

Jairus begs for help. Faith triggers a miracle of healing.

v. 25-34:  A ritually unclean woman is healed

Now there was a woman who had been suffering from haemorrhages for twelve years. She had endured much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had; and she was no better, but rather grew worse. She had heard about Jesus, and came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, for she said, ‘If I but touch his clothes, I will be made well.’ Immediately her haemorrhage stopped; and she felt in her body that she was healed of her disease. Immediately aware that power had gone forth from him, Jesus turned about in the crowd and said, ‘Who touched my clothes?’ And his disciples said to him, ‘You see the crowd pressing in on you; how can you say, “Who touched me?” ’ He looked all round to see who had done it. But the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came in fear and trembling, fell down before him, and told him the whole truth. He said to her, ‘Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease.’

Faith breaks through even when all hope seems lost. The reaction of the woman was telling. She was in fear and in trembling. Likewise, on witnessing the healing of the young girl who was brought back to life the crowd was overcome with amazement (v. 42).

 

Friday, 18 June 2021

Navigating stormy waters

“…Peace! Be still!” (Mark 4:39)

 

Job 38:1-11

Psalm 107

2 Corinthians 6:1-13

Mark 4:35-41

 New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright © 1989, 1995 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. http://nrsvbibles.org

(Year B: Third Sunday after Trinity, 20th June 2021)


This Sunday, we hear about a storm on Lake Galilee where the disciples were with Jesus. Just a word about geography: Lake Galilee is a relatively small lake somewhat less than the size of North County Dublin. It is below sea level and because of its unique location is subject to the occasional sudden and violent storm today as well as when Jesus led his band of disciples in the areas around that lake 2,000 years ago.

The community for which Mark wrote this Gospel some 40 years after the death and resurrection of the Lord Jesus was the subject of persecution. Today, we are buffeted and tossed on the stormy seas of our world just as when the disciples were in a place of great fear. We are in that boat today and we, also, experience moments of anxiety – possibly acute anxiety about all sorts of things that happen at some stage to many people – a precarious job contract, no job contract, no business, illness, a broken down relationship, a loss of health or the challenges and joys of ageing. We yearn for peace and stability in a world of conflict and upheaval. As we have just read in Psalm 107 we yearn for a haven where the Lord may bring us.

Jesus calmed the storm and we hear that ‘there was a dead calm’. Whatever the circumstances of our lives we, too, can find places of ‘dead calm’ in our souls if we take the time and patience to go there. The calming of the storm all around is about what happens within me, you, the next person. We can only be responsible for our part of the situation but our response to the storms can facilitate a point of calm in the ‘eye of the storm’. Finding those daily ‘still points’ is important but we can be sure of one thing – there will be storms and very often sudden and unexpected storms that defy the best meteorological forecasts and analysis.

We may feel caught up in this turmoil at a personal, family, organisational or societal level. We might yearn for some rock of certainty or refuge. If only we could hold on to something like flotsam on the water while ships sink. The literal words of holy scripture or the devotional practices of old might offer some comfort or refuge when everything else seems to be crumbling all around us.

At times like these we may be tempted to do one of three things:
  • Make a retreat into self-contained holy huddles sure of our own salvation and correctness.
  • Succumb to indifference and mediocrity.
  • Abandon a living faith through despair, despondency and cynicism.
May I suggest three steps which are part of the ‘Monday take-aways’ from this week’s readings:

  1. Seek out places and times of quiet where we can be alone with our God.
  2. Stay active in every sense of the word including reaching out to others in need around us.
  3. Join our efforts with those of others who may not share our faith but share many of our values – values of life, solidarity, justice, sustainability and equality of respect.

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Saturday, 12 June 2021

Letting go

 “…and the seed would sprout and grow, he does not know how.” (Mark 4:27)

 


1 Samuel 15:34-16:13

Psalm 20

2 Corinthians 5:6-17

Mark 4:26-34

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(Year B: Second Sunday after Trinity, 13th June 2021)

A key part of Jesus’ ministry was telling stories. Because it is very often hard for us to ‘get it’ we need to hear and to tell stories – stories about real people and their lives. A really good story is remembered because it touches three things: the heart, the mind and the will.  In fact, the very word Gospel means good news or good stories.

Jesus took natural examples from the natural world of living, working, relating and caring to illustrate what the ‘kingdom of God’ is like. The phrase ‘It (the Kingdom of God) is like’ ….’or it is as if…’ crops up all over the gospels.

We do well to pause and reflect on the gospel stories we hear week after week and year after year. The same story is never quite the same each time we hear it.  The secret is to link it to our own personal life experience as well as that of others. This requires patience, diligence and openness.  And all of this takes time.

The story or parable of the sower lands us, figuratively speaking, in a world of fields and crops.  We can rest in these images contemplating the mystery not only of nature but our own complex lives intertwined with those of others. Gone are the textbook manuals of scientific determination. In with the organic, intuitive, living, growing, flourishing, decaying, ageing and harvesting images that best reflect the way the world actually works.

We like certainty and seek to avoid too much risk. However, life does always not work that way.   Sometimes, we need to ‘scatter the seed’ on the ground and then leave it there for a time. The opposite of this is called ‘micro-management’ where – for reasons of insecurity – we have a need to plan down to the last detail and direct the details of a project or a relationship.  Letting go also means embracing a condition of ‘not knowing’.  As it says in this Gospel passage the sower ‘would sleep and rise night and day, and the seed would sprout and grow, he does not know how.’

We just do not know How or When or Who. We only know a What- that what is sown is sown and God is active somehow but the results are not to be seen now. It is a case of doing the following:

  • -        We hear the Word of God as seeds of possibility in our depths;
  • -        We make it our own by planting deep in the garden of our soul;
  • -        We let it germinate and let it grow;
  • -        We do not know how it happens;
  • -        We believe that God is in charge; and
  • -        The results will be plain later on.

In the case of parenting, for example, it may involve a very gradual letting go as children move into adulthood. However, staying close and being available and stepping in are essential.

Monday take-aways

1                    Letting go is required – of our fears, our insecurities, our attachments, our detailed plans, our risk analysis, our mental frameworks and our self-image.

2                    What we sow may seem of little consequence in terms of size and standing. Later, however, the seeds give rise to ‘the largest of all garden plants, with such big branches that the birds can perch in its shade’ (verse 32).

3                    God’s love is bigger than our plans and expectations. All we need to do is what we can do now – to sow the seed and keep it close to our hearts and then let God lead us forward step by step. 

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The poet, mystic and monk, Thomas Merton (1915-1968), put it this way:

‘My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it. Therefore will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone’. (from Thoughts in Solitude).


Sunday, 6 June 2021

A new set of challenges for family values

“…Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.” (Mark 3:35)


1 Samuel 8: 4-11, 12-15, 16-20, 11: 14-15

Psalm 138

2 Corinthians 4:13-5: 1

Mark 3:20-35


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(Year B: First Sunday after Trinity, 6th June 2021)

Returning, this Sunday, to the Gospel of Saint Mark, we hear that the public ministry of Jesus is in full swing.  After Jesus heals on the Sabbath, he draws large crowds and he appoints twelve apostles or his first disciples. That must have been a joyful and a tough time for those called as they let go, to some extent, of their natural families.  Jesus’ own ‘family’ were concerned about what people were saying about him, namely, that he was ‘out of his mind’ while the ‘teachers of the law’ were convinced, worse still, that he was possessed by the devil. Was the family of Jesus primarily concerned about Jesus’ safety or did they, too, believe that Jesus was out of his mind?

What emerges in Mark’s account is a confrontational exchange where Jesus spells out some home truths by countering his religious detractors in the strongest possible terms. Not alone that, but he puts his own family in the picture by declaring openly that he is founding a much broader family rooted in God’s love and will.

It is to be noted that the word ‘family’ used in this translation is open to interpretation with scholars and translators differing on how to apply the Greek  term in this context and some opting for ‘friends’ over ‘family’. Similarly, there is dispute over whether or not Jesus had blood brothers or sisters.  (Scholars will always differ. In any case, the scriptures, fortunately, were not written in 21st century English!). It is reasonable to conclude that the family of Jesus was unusual in its make-up and origins. Indeed, an orthodox credal understanding of the birth of Jesus confirms such a view.

One can imagine how scandalous all of this sounded to a respectable, pious, traditional, familial and ethnic 1st century Jewish milieu. Not only did Jesus declare a new extended family but he seemed to put no boundaries on it by declaring openly in verse 35:
Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.
Note the word ‘whoever’.

This saying was not just for the religiously pure, the in-house group, ‘one’s own kind’ etc., but it was for ‘whoever does God’s will’. This echoed in the audiences hearing and reading the gospel years later in the very different setting of expulsion, conflict and scattering. Such a daring and radical declaration by Jesus should not be taken as callousness towards his immediate family (however widely or narrowly that might be interpreted).

Monday take-aways

We have a duty to one another as members of our own natural families as well as the family founded by Jesus. The two go hand in hand.

Where Jesus is concerned there are no cliques or in-groups. Membership is open to everyone and the only rule is the rule of self-sacrificing love. To do this is do the will of God and in that way we are sisters, brothers and mothers to Jesus – and to one another.

Finally, we should not worry unduly about what other people think about us. The important thing is to do what is right, tell the truth and stand up for human rights and dignity.